"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Colt45

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Their is this girl that keeps talking about how much she wants me. The thing is that she's dating other guys. I feel like I'm being used realy bad. What should I do????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Play cold and don't give her lots of attention and call her on her ****... If she is like "Oh I want you" say "Prove it or fvck off" or do it more polite but still strong.
 

Colt45

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Sounds good. I'm going to try that one.
Thanks
 

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The funny thing is you probably new the right thing to do. You just wanted 'to be sure.' Next time just do what your gut tells you.
 
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don't listen to what women say -- just look at what they do -- personally if woman says she likes me and is dating other men I see this as grave disrespect and the biatch is pulling your chain and seeing how far she can take you .

have some dignity and leave this girl alone -- she will respect much more --- trust me. Ignore her #ss and get other chicks and then when you are dating other chicks and she knows it - then you tell her the same shyt "I like you" and see how she takes it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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