"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alright here is the situation. There's this girl me and my friend met in the same class at the beginning of school. We both became very good friends with her and we hung out as three a lot. However, she also hangs out with the both of us alone too. My friend told me in the beginning that he would leave her for me. The complication is that she likes him now, but she doesn't feel the same way about me. He keeps getting out of going out with her because we're really close friends, but I need some help in attracting her to me! HELP
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well looks as tho u have been out-gamed, the situations ****ty as **** i can tell u from experience, there is alot of ways to approach such a thing, but there is only 1 way to improve ur unfortunate scenario, first u let her go, cuz if she likes ur friend then ur only wasting ur time, second u must step up ur game, oh also dont let a female get between u & ur homie, bros before hoes
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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he's a longgggggggg way from getting anywhere

he's friendzoned, she talks to him about how she feels....

to put it in terms you can understand OP she now sees you as a woman friend not as a guy, move on, and change your behavior, you're me 5 years ago :p
 
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bookman said:
he's a longgggggggg way from getting anywhere

he's friendzoned, she talks to him about how she feels....

to put it in terms you can understand OP she now sees you as a woman friend not as a guy, move on, and change your behavior, you're me 5 years ago :p
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The only person to tell him his problem. You're right.

But what other people said is true too. Go meet some new ones.
 
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