"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright here is the situation. There's this girl me and my friend met in the same class at the beginning of school. We both became very good friends with her and we hung out as three a lot. However, she also hangs out with the both of us alone too. My friend told me in the beginning that he would leave her for me. The complication is that she likes him now, but she doesn't feel the same way about me. He keeps getting out of going out with her because we're really close friends, but I need some help in attracting her to me! HELP
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well looks as tho u have been out-gamed, the situations ****ty as **** i can tell u from experience, there is alot of ways to approach such a thing, but there is only 1 way to improve ur unfortunate scenario, first u let her go, cuz if she likes ur friend then ur only wasting ur time, second u must step up ur game, oh also dont let a female get between u & ur homie, bros before hoes
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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he's a longgggggggg way from getting anywhere

he's friendzoned, she talks to him about how she feels....

to put it in terms you can understand OP she now sees you as a woman friend not as a guy, move on, and change your behavior, you're me 5 years ago :p
 
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bookman said:
he's a longgggggggg way from getting anywhere

he's friendzoned, she talks to him about how she feels....

to put it in terms you can understand OP she now sees you as a woman friend not as a guy, move on, and change your behavior, you're me 5 years ago :p
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The only person to tell him his problem. You're right.

But what other people said is true too. Go meet some new ones.
 
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