"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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backbreaker

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Okay, quick rundown. I'm not in horrible shape. shoot, I'm not in bad shape. I'm about 2 months from being where I want to end up, if that, just loose some of the fat from around my wist, and that's really it, maybe tone up my bi's and chest a tad bit more.

Anyway, I just can't find time to workout. I work about 12-13 hours a day. I like to sleep every once in a while. I feel like **** becuase I ask myself to do what amounts to the impossible and I expect myself to, and I get fustrated when I can't.

Any words/help would be greatly appricated
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Potbelly

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ok by tone up I guess you mean lose fat like you said. however you cannot spot reduce from certain areas you'd like to such as your waist and chest. instead you must do cardio while lifting heavy to maintain as much muscle mass as possible. also, get a clean diet and eat enough calories.

man you work a lot. however, a workout is a pretty quickie thing to do. it shouldn't take hours. maybe cut away some computer time or tv time and you will have time for a workout. cardio...wake up a bit earlier and do some cardio. also, remember losing fat and looking good will take time so do not expect to get there fast. that should take some of the pressure off yourself knowing it will be a gradual progression. good luck
 

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For you I thinnk diet would be key, unless you already eat clean. Try having 5-6 small meals a day, it speeds up matabolism. And like Potbelly said a workout shouldn't take that long. Only 45 minutes or so.
 

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backbreaker said:
Okay, quick rundown. I'm not in horrible shape. shoot, I'm not in bad shape. I'm about 2 months from being where I want to end up, if that, just loose some of the fat from around my wist, and that's really it, maybe tone up my bi's and chest a tad bit more.

Anyway, I just can't find time to workout. I work about 12-13 hours a day. I like to sleep every once in a while. I feel like **** becuase I ask myself to do what amounts to the impossible and I expect myself to, and I get fustrated when I can't.

Any words/help would be greatly appricated
I like being fat because i have high self esteem and im proud of my rolls. I feel so sorry for those mucsly bulky body builder guys. Some of them just look so scary and mad most of the time. Besides my husband says Im beautiful just how I am. Ive only gained about 160 pounds since our marriage. I would go to the gym but I am constantly busy running after these kids. Well i have to go. Its my time of the day to eat a gallon of ice cream and go watch The Days of Our Lives
 
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