"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help me work on my text game

thunder_god

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So I just decided to give tinder another go and started using tinder again after I found it a waste of time. Anyways I want to improve my text game, which is seriously lacking. I so far got 2 matches on tinder, well technically I got 4 but two of them were hookers lol. So far I have heard back from one chick who I have absolutely no intention of dating lol. I'm hoping to use these girls that I meet on tinder to practice text game. If the chick is good looking I will ask her out but so far I only heard back from that one girl who I will never ask out. I need you guys to critique my text game and also provide your own input on how you would have texted the girl different. This thread is used mainly for educational purposes. so here goes:

Got a match with a 22 yr old fat ugly black chick on tinder last night. This has been the text exchange:

me:I love that hat your wearing! So what's the story behind it?

her: Thank you! I actually got it at a thift store when I was in Hamilton and I recently lost it!

me: :( too bad because it looks great on u :p

her: Thank you! I have been trying to find one like it but most of the hats in style are fedoras and I don't like those

me: So tell me something her name, what is a good looking girl like u doing on tinder?

her: boredom! It's pretty interesting. Plus I don't find myself meeting people other than in bars or clubs so it's an easier way if I retracting with people, you?

I haven't responded back yet. Keep in mind, I have no plans on asking her out otherwise I would have tried to spring that on at some point in the conversation.

I also got a match a few minutes ago, with some armenian model in Toronto. I was like holy $hit. In person, a girl like that wouldn't even give me the time of the day. I think it must be some bot or some other bs. Anyways she hasn't responded back to my text message. She had quotes nora roberts "If you don't ask, the answer is always no." I messaged her with the message “If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it.". Never heard back from her lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Leave It Alone Dude

Refrain from online game and text game until you get your day and club game down packed.
 

Starfvcks 64

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nevermind.
 

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Ask yourself what is more beneficial.

Staying at home on your own scouting through matches or getting out hitting up the bars and clubs like a boss.

I'd say you would improve ten fold in all aspects by getting the fvck out there. Have you seen how successful AFCs are in the field. It's criminal.
 

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Honestly I've probably gotten laid more times from sitting on my ass getting good at text game and using tinder within the last year or two than i have in all my years of hitting up bars and clubs and house parties. And I party A LOT, and my going out game is solid. Just saying.

The guy wasn't asking if you thought he should go out in the field and work on his game. He was asking for text/tinder tips. Help a brother out.

Checkout Braddock's Guide to Text and Phone Game (or whatever it's called). Also, this thread: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/508923

Honestly Tinder is the SINGLE GREATEST THING IN EXISTANCE to improve text game. It's basically an endless supply of girls you can try stuff on. If you blow it, just start over and over and over. Keep at it. A few months on tinder and your text game will become so much better
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thunder_god

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Don-Kong said:
Ask yourself what is more beneficial.

Staying at home on your own scouting through matches or getting out hitting up the bars and clubs like a boss.

I'd say you would improve ten fold in all aspects by getting the fvck out there. Have you seen how successful AFCs are in the field. It's criminal.
I'm already doing this. I just started using tinder because I took a day off of going out sarging and had other **** to do. Can't be a bad thing if I do both.
 

thunder_god

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gravityeyelids said:
Honestly I've probably gotten laid more times from sitting on my ass getting good at text game and using tinder within the last year or two than i have in all my years of hitting up bars and clubs and house parties. And I party A LOT, and my going out game is solid. Just saying.

The guy wasn't asking if you thought he should go out in the field and work on his game. He was asking for text/tinder tips. Help a brother out.

Checkout Braddock's Guide to Text and Phone Game (or whatever it's called). Also, this thread: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/508923

Honestly Tinder is the SINGLE GREATEST THING IN EXISTANCE to improve text game. It's basically an endless supply of girls you can try stuff on. If you blow it, just start over and over and over. Keep at it. A few months on tinder and your text game will become so much better
Thanks bro. Glad someone decided to answer my questions instead of telling me it is a waste of time. I just joined tinder to work on my text game so if I do # close any chick from sarging I will have some experience under my belt.
 
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