"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help me work on my text game

thunder_god

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So I just decided to give tinder another go and started using tinder again after I found it a waste of time. Anyways I want to improve my text game, which is seriously lacking. I so far got 2 matches on tinder, well technically I got 4 but two of them were hookers lol. So far I have heard back from one chick who I have absolutely no intention of dating lol. I'm hoping to use these girls that I meet on tinder to practice text game. If the chick is good looking I will ask her out but so far I only heard back from that one girl who I will never ask out. I need you guys to critique my text game and also provide your own input on how you would have texted the girl different. This thread is used mainly for educational purposes. so here goes:

Got a match with a 22 yr old fat ugly black chick on tinder last night. This has been the text exchange:

me:I love that hat your wearing! So what's the story behind it?

her: Thank you! I actually got it at a thift store when I was in Hamilton and I recently lost it!

me: :( too bad because it looks great on u :p

her: Thank you! I have been trying to find one like it but most of the hats in style are fedoras and I don't like those

me: So tell me something her name, what is a good looking girl like u doing on tinder?

her: boredom! It's pretty interesting. Plus I don't find myself meeting people other than in bars or clubs so it's an easier way if I retracting with people, you?

I haven't responded back yet. Keep in mind, I have no plans on asking her out otherwise I would have tried to spring that on at some point in the conversation.

I also got a match a few minutes ago, with some armenian model in Toronto. I was like holy $hit. In person, a girl like that wouldn't even give me the time of the day. I think it must be some bot or some other bs. Anyways she hasn't responded back to my text message. She had quotes nora roberts "If you don't ask, the answer is always no." I messaged her with the message “If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it.". Never heard back from her lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Leave It Alone Dude

Refrain from online game and text game until you get your day and club game down packed.
 

Starfvcks 64

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nevermind.
 

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Ask yourself what is more beneficial.

Staying at home on your own scouting through matches or getting out hitting up the bars and clubs like a boss.

I'd say you would improve ten fold in all aspects by getting the fvck out there. Have you seen how successful AFCs are in the field. It's criminal.
 

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Honestly I've probably gotten laid more times from sitting on my ass getting good at text game and using tinder within the last year or two than i have in all my years of hitting up bars and clubs and house parties. And I party A LOT, and my going out game is solid. Just saying.

The guy wasn't asking if you thought he should go out in the field and work on his game. He was asking for text/tinder tips. Help a brother out.

Checkout Braddock's Guide to Text and Phone Game (or whatever it's called). Also, this thread: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/508923

Honestly Tinder is the SINGLE GREATEST THING IN EXISTANCE to improve text game. It's basically an endless supply of girls you can try stuff on. If you blow it, just start over and over and over. Keep at it. A few months on tinder and your text game will become so much better
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thunder_god

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Don-Kong said:
Ask yourself what is more beneficial.

Staying at home on your own scouting through matches or getting out hitting up the bars and clubs like a boss.

I'd say you would improve ten fold in all aspects by getting the fvck out there. Have you seen how successful AFCs are in the field. It's criminal.
I'm already doing this. I just started using tinder because I took a day off of going out sarging and had other **** to do. Can't be a bad thing if I do both.
 

thunder_god

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gravityeyelids said:
Honestly I've probably gotten laid more times from sitting on my ass getting good at text game and using tinder within the last year or two than i have in all my years of hitting up bars and clubs and house parties. And I party A LOT, and my going out game is solid. Just saying.

The guy wasn't asking if you thought he should go out in the field and work on his game. He was asking for text/tinder tips. Help a brother out.

Checkout Braddock's Guide to Text and Phone Game (or whatever it's called). Also, this thread: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/508923

Honestly Tinder is the SINGLE GREATEST THING IN EXISTANCE to improve text game. It's basically an endless supply of girls you can try stuff on. If you blow it, just start over and over and over. Keep at it. A few months on tinder and your text game will become so much better
Thanks bro. Glad someone decided to answer my questions instead of telling me it is a waste of time. I just joined tinder to work on my text game so if I do # close any chick from sarging I will have some experience under my belt.
 
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