"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help me with this setting. The OR game

Powersurgeon

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There is this really cute anesthesiologist. I don't want her phone number, I want at least kiss, better if I can fvck her.
We are in the OR just she, other surgeon and me. How can I use openers, negs, etc. in this particular setting?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sodbuster

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I think I'd concentrate on work in the OR.... you don't want to f#ck up your living for a piece of tail...... NEVER sh!t where you eat!
 

Powersurgeon

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sodbuster said:
I think I'd concentrate on work in the OR.... you don't want to f#ck up your living for a piece of tail...... NEVER sh!t where you eat!
I'm talking about an easy elective case. My hands move automatically. If the **** hits the fan I obviously don't care about anything else.
 

grayclif

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Powersurgeon. Openers and negs come natural. They should roll of the tongue easily and with confidence. I don't think anybody here will tell you to say this then say that or will they encourage you to develop a relationship with someone at work.

In one of your previous posts you mentioned your wife cheated on you. I think you have a lot of other inner things to work on than worrying about a girl at work.
 

Spinach

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Doc to Doc keep your head in the game. She can wait...when procedures become automatic is when a Pt. suffers. You know better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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