"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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help me with this message please..

carlitos

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here's a message i'm writing to a girl whom's trust i kinda betrayed now she's playing a lot of games with me but still likes me..as ***** as it sounds i would think that i don't have anything to lose other than a little bit of pride...so tell me what you think guys...here it goes:



Hey..i hope everything is going well with you..i don’t know how we ended up like this but I just thought I’d get this off my mind.. I know I haven’t been treating you the way I should be..i know I haven’t been keeping it real with you..and you should know that I’ve always felt guilty about it..even tho technically it’s not really in my position to be..

I remember the first time we met I knew you were different..and I just know that you woulda treated me right..anyways I just feel that I betrayed your trust for example when the first time I talked to you on msn and I didn’t come back when I said I would and I went to a party with my friends and didn’t really tell you about it..or we haven’t been communicating properly..whatever the case is..every time you tell me you’d show up and you don’t..i get pretty disappointed even tho when it happened with other girls that didn’t have the kind of “connection” that we had I just forgot about them right away…but no matter what I just always thought about you…

Whether you’re still mad at me or not…I’m not really good at talking about my feelings but I’ma say what I had to say…
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheEdgeOf

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I'm sorry, but I have to ask. You didn't have your bawls removed recently, did you? I don't wanna be mean, but What The Fvck is that? I'm gagging on the AFCness of that message. That message is the epitome of an AFC. Please, save yourself from... you.

Drop the gun buddy, your foot can do without the wound.
 

Bible_Belt

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A girl I know is a hb9 and gets messages like this from guys all the time. She forwards them to me, we laugh at the afc, and then she has sex with me. Don't be that guy we laugh at.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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carlitos

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u guys are totally right..and man i'm so happy that i didn't send the message..some wussboy suggested me to write it and i just knew something was wrong..

instead i just talked to her online...dropped my ego and just agree-kill-closed her..now i got the upper hand and got her guessing..

thanks a lot guys..i appreciate it
 
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