"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help Me With The Woman Of My Life

Obsidian

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ok, i will show much less attention. it's easy not to call. but how should i behave when i'm with her?
treat her the way you treat your regular friends, except in a somewhat more sexual way. Don't do whatever she says just because she says it. Don't respect her more than you respect yourself. Feel free to disagree with her at times and stand your ground. If she does something disrespectful, feel free to get mad and/or call her out on it. Don't be such a boring, nice guy.

Also, pursue action dates and pursue action in life in general. Don't be a boring person, especially when you're around her.

And why would you wait 3 years before asking a girl to marry you? Going that long is just asking for trouble, imo.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ChrisG

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Obsidian said:
And why would you wait 3 years before asking a girl to marry you? Going that long is just asking for trouble, imo.
well, i would marry her right away, but we were still studying.
 

Serialized3

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KneghtRyder said:
something smells like a troll..........what guy doesn't like ons...

ur weird dude
*Raises hand*

More like "what guy doesn't like meaningless empty sex with a slutty girl that possibly has a ton of STDs"?
 

RyKnOw

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Lmao...or going to the health dept every month and seeing your fav doctor cause it burns when you pee...
 
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