"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help Me With The Woman Of My Life

Obsidian

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ok, i will show much less attention. it's easy not to call. but how should i behave when i'm with her?
treat her the way you treat your regular friends, except in a somewhat more sexual way. Don't do whatever she says just because she says it. Don't respect her more than you respect yourself. Feel free to disagree with her at times and stand your ground. If she does something disrespectful, feel free to get mad and/or call her out on it. Don't be such a boring, nice guy.

Also, pursue action dates and pursue action in life in general. Don't be a boring person, especially when you're around her.

And why would you wait 3 years before asking a girl to marry you? Going that long is just asking for trouble, imo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChrisG

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Obsidian said:
And why would you wait 3 years before asking a girl to marry you? Going that long is just asking for trouble, imo.
well, i would marry her right away, but we were still studying.
 

Serialized3

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KneghtRyder said:
something smells like a troll..........what guy doesn't like ons...

ur weird dude
*Raises hand*

More like "what guy doesn't like meaningless empty sex with a slutty girl that possibly has a ton of STDs"?
 

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Lmao...or going to the health dept every month and seeing your fav doctor cause it burns when you pee...
 
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