"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obsidian

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ok, i will show much less attention. it's easy not to call. but how should i behave when i'm with her?
treat her the way you treat your regular friends, except in a somewhat more sexual way. Don't do whatever she says just because she says it. Don't respect her more than you respect yourself. Feel free to disagree with her at times and stand your ground. If she does something disrespectful, feel free to get mad and/or call her out on it. Don't be such a boring, nice guy.

Also, pursue action dates and pursue action in life in general. Don't be a boring person, especially when you're around her.

And why would you wait 3 years before asking a girl to marry you? Going that long is just asking for trouble, imo.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ChrisG

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Obsidian said:
And why would you wait 3 years before asking a girl to marry you? Going that long is just asking for trouble, imo.
well, i would marry her right away, but we were still studying.
 

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KneghtRyder said:
something smells like a troll..........what guy doesn't like ons...

ur weird dude
*Raises hand*

More like "what guy doesn't like meaningless empty sex with a slutty girl that possibly has a ton of STDs"?
 

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Lmao...or going to the health dept every month and seeing your fav doctor cause it burns when you pee...
 
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