"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help me with the next step

iLoveCookies

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So I met this girl we had a super quick informal dinner, then a couple weeks later we hung out at the beach at night, ended up in her jacuzzi making out (5 days ago). Went to a real dinner a couple nights ago, nothing too fancy ($35.00 check for both) So now we havent really had a chance to hang out. I have talked to her every day since.

I am always busy working or at school as well as her so I was wondering what the next step is. She told me she really likes me and I feel the same (I am a little hesitant given that I have a cold heart) but can someone give me an example of the few next stages? how things are supposed to pan out?

Will pay via PayPal for good adivCE!!!!!!
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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then whats the problem

invite her to ur place for a dvd show her ur room, sit on the bed with her, start making out and escalate from there
 
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