"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So I met this girl we had a super quick informal dinner, then a couple weeks later we hung out at the beach at night, ended up in her jacuzzi making out (5 days ago). Went to a real dinner a couple nights ago, nothing too fancy ($35.00 check for both) So now we havent really had a chance to hang out. I have talked to her every day since.

I am always busy working or at school as well as her so I was wondering what the next step is. She told me she really likes me and I feel the same (I am a little hesitant given that I have a cold heart) but can someone give me an example of the few next stages? how things are supposed to pan out?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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then whats the problem

invite her to ur place for a dvd show her ur room, sit on the bed with her, start making out and escalate from there
 
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