"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Help me with my ganji

K2000kidd

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I read the thread on ganji games and i have a somewhat modified version that i use

Basically i only speak to her when we cross paths, I always keep it pleasant and always keep it work related, this annoys the hell out of her because i dont speak to her unless she approaches, and she is getting the hint that she has to come to me or
at least meet me halfway, and the last time we spoke she's like "The only time you come all the way down here is to borrow something, it's not like we TALK anymore."

I feel totally cutting her off looks like I'm bitter that she LBJFd me
Opinions??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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K2000kidd

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about four months
I really like her but refuse to act like a whipped dog
I know i should never fish off the company peir and all
but it's only Home depot
not like i intend to work here forever
 
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K2000kidd said:
about four months
I really like her but refuse to act like a whipped dog
I know i should never fish off the company peir and all
but it's only Home depot
not like i intend to work here forever
Hmmm.... dont let her bring you down. Be the happy confident guy you are when she talks to you, but dont chase her, let her come to you if she wants to talk. When shes does, be happy, confident, and ask her how her day was, in other words, be attractive not negative. Gangi is not going to work because you two work together, and in this case it would make things worse. I agree that you shouldn't act like a whipped dog, but don't be a complete a$$hole. Remember that you are the Great catch, and show her by being happy, confident, and comfortable, but most of all, a MAN, that she was stupid for LJBF you. You cant change the past, but you can change how you she sees you and how you see yourself. Show her that her LJBF doesnt bother you at all, and if you see her give her eye contact and smile, be the king of your own kingdom and talk to the other girls at work and the female customers, ( i know theres only a few at home depot), and have fun. She will wonder what is going on, and will talk to more often, and when she does remember that you are the Great Catch! :rockon:

P.S Start approaching girls everywhere you see, and start lifting weights. Also reread the Book of Pook, and read his threads
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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