"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Help me with my ganji

K2000kidd

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I read the thread on ganji games and i have a somewhat modified version that i use

Basically i only speak to her when we cross paths, I always keep it pleasant and always keep it work related, this annoys the hell out of her because i dont speak to her unless she approaches, and she is getting the hint that she has to come to me or
at least meet me halfway, and the last time we spoke she's like "The only time you come all the way down here is to borrow something, it's not like we TALK anymore."

I feel totally cutting her off looks like I'm bitter that she LBJFd me
Opinions??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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K2000kidd

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about four months
I really like her but refuse to act like a whipped dog
I know i should never fish off the company peir and all
but it's only Home depot
not like i intend to work here forever
 
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K2000kidd said:
about four months
I really like her but refuse to act like a whipped dog
I know i should never fish off the company peir and all
but it's only Home depot
not like i intend to work here forever
Hmmm.... dont let her bring you down. Be the happy confident guy you are when she talks to you, but dont chase her, let her come to you if she wants to talk. When shes does, be happy, confident, and ask her how her day was, in other words, be attractive not negative. Gangi is not going to work because you two work together, and in this case it would make things worse. I agree that you shouldn't act like a whipped dog, but don't be a complete a$$hole. Remember that you are the Great catch, and show her by being happy, confident, and comfortable, but most of all, a MAN, that she was stupid for LJBF you. You cant change the past, but you can change how you she sees you and how you see yourself. Show her that her LJBF doesnt bother you at all, and if you see her give her eye contact and smile, be the king of your own kingdom and talk to the other girls at work and the female customers, ( i know theres only a few at home depot), and have fun. She will wonder what is going on, and will talk to more often, and when she does remember that you are the Great Catch! :rockon:

P.S Start approaching girls everywhere you see, and start lifting weights. Also reread the Book of Pook, and read his threads
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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