This might just be for my own good but I wanted to give my perspective on all the red flags I ignored. Feel free to share similar stories or comment.
She romanticized to her friends about how we met, basically lying to them, misconstruing the story, even though it was a great story by itself.
She told me her dad is an a*shole. Met him a bunch of times, never got the inclination. Whenever I asked why, she always told the same story. Heard the same thing 4-5 times.
3 months into the relationship she went through my phone, and inevitably ended the relationship because "she couldn't trust me."
One of her "best friends" was a guy that "had always been there for her." Found out later that they used to be FWB a short time (before we met).
One of her best girlfriends was a complete nut job crazy basket case and I could not stand to be around her.
She consistently brought up her exs mainly as a form of manipulation to "train" me not to treat her a certain way.
Constantly crossed boundaries on social media. I.e tagging guys in innapropriate sexual innuendos.
Her parents were still married but she told me her mom controls her dad's balls.
Use to be a huge pot head. Even in he industry she was in and random drug tests she still did it.
Towards the end of the relationship I caught her reaching out to her ex.
I could seriously go on and on. I'm obviously not over her, and probably won't be for a long time. However, I feel like this is a way to help me reach my goal of forgetting her. Thanks for listening.
She romanticized to her friends about how we met, basically lying to them, misconstruing the story, even though it was a great story by itself.
She told me her dad is an a*shole. Met him a bunch of times, never got the inclination. Whenever I asked why, she always told the same story. Heard the same thing 4-5 times.
3 months into the relationship she went through my phone, and inevitably ended the relationship because "she couldn't trust me."
One of her "best friends" was a guy that "had always been there for her." Found out later that they used to be FWB a short time (before we met).
One of her best girlfriends was a complete nut job crazy basket case and I could not stand to be around her.
She consistently brought up her exs mainly as a form of manipulation to "train" me not to treat her a certain way.
Constantly crossed boundaries on social media. I.e tagging guys in innapropriate sexual innuendos.
Her parents were still married but she told me her mom controls her dad's balls.
Use to be a huge pot head. Even in he industry she was in and random drug tests she still did it.
Towards the end of the relationship I caught her reaching out to her ex.
I could seriously go on and on. I'm obviously not over her, and probably won't be for a long time. However, I feel like this is a way to help me reach my goal of forgetting her. Thanks for listening.
