mine did the same
I had a date with whats her face this friday and she called to cancel the day before. She also got mad at me about not understanding why. So another 1 and a half hour phone call of disagreements and questions. She seems to think it is ok to break dates, she says her f*cking schedule is so busy with her friends, and she needs to see her friends to. This is like the 6th time she has done this. (Cancel a date).
I don't know why I put up with it.
Basically I think she is dating another guy(s).
She is Korean and claims she goes out with 5-6 people at a time, but of course the white american boyfriend is pushed to the side for her other plans.
She probably has some Korean boyfriend who she needs to see or she has some Korean Sugar Daddy who sprinkles her with gifts and money.
This is only my suspicions about her.
I think your girlfriend is the same, I think she knows you are in love with her and she is turned off by that.
Same with mine, made the fatal mistake of revealing how I felt about her. Women seem to really resent that when they don't feel the same.
another f*ked up thing about women.
Viet girls and koreans are really similar in attitudes aparently. Materialistic, ruthless, etc.
I was going to dump my AW this weekend but I just couldn't. It's been so long it's hard to break off. I think next week is the last straw with her.
I invited her to my apt to make dinner and she better put out or it's over.
She gave me this whole bit about how she has never had sex and is afraid with me because she will get emotionally attached or I will, She might move back to Korea one day to she mentioned. But WTF is the point of starting a relationship with a girl who #1 won't put out
#2 Will probably move back to their country of origin.
What is the point? You can't have love so it's pointless.
I guess false hope is whats got me.
I'll bet a million dollars your viet girl is probably seeing someone else and your sources are incorrect. Girls especially AW's never study on weekends.
My GF gave me the same excuse about having a new job in Seoul (while she lives in NYC) and gets paid from Korea to do research work on fashion in New York... And of course it's on weekends that she needs to squeeze it in. I mean the BS this girl feeds me makes me physically sick.
We are bother getting played man.
I am changed, I am have decided to move onto new things, meet new women, forget relationships until I am in my 30's or later. Do the same.
Besides, let's say you had 2 viet girls. If one of them like the one you are seeing now flaked on you, you could go to the other girl. It's like having ammunition in a gun, backup.
Then you aren't left sitting "what did I do wrong". Nothing pal, she is bored and won you over, the challenge cease to exist!
I do all the wrong things with my current GF like lecture her when she is simply a rebel.
They want a guy who never gets mad, but treats them great, and ignores them every now and then, but really means it.
You ever wondered why all of the people you don't like are in love with you and the ones you have crushes on never really feel the same?
That is psychology for you.
If you are always around for her and treat her like she is your lifeblood, what you need to survive, she will begin to look at you like the dorkiest loser on earth. Like you have 4 eyes or something.
It's called "being cool". And you can't fake it either.
You can practice this until you master.
Basically most guys once they get a girl, they get lazy and stop talking to women, then they are left AFC's begging for her company.
So stop calling her if she is busy.
BTW if you didn't get mad at her and the call was cool, don't call her until she calls on you...it worked with mine after she canceled, I waited a week and she called me wondering why I haven't called.
