"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Help me spice up my Sex with this girl

gravityeyelids

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Okay so i'm going to my girl's town this weekend to party and get a hotel with her. We do this every couple months usually.

Short background on her: I dated her for almost a year in college. She was my neighbor in college, and we had a great relationship. Only reason we "broke up" is because she went to study abroad and graduated afterwards so logistics prevented it. We're still extremely cool and have a FWB type of deal, only thing is she lives like 2 hours away. We're extremely cool with each other and she is super down to earth and drama free. Shes completely cool with this open relationship type of deal we have going on.

So anyway...I want to try something different as far as sex when we see each other. I always give her good sex, but i want to switch it up. She's cool with trying pretty much whatever so long as it's not anal or any butt play or like bondage or whatever. We've played around a little bit with stuff like roleplaying, blindfolding/earplugs, tying her hands together, slapping each other, etc...but i wanna do something new and kinda crazy

Public sex is an option...i just dont know where we would go. I've always wanted to go to a department store and bang in the changing rooms after trying on lingerie or whatever. Nature would be cool too.

Is there any fun props or toys i could bring to the hotel that you guys could think of?

Ideas anyone? :moon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fireballs

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Pull her into the stairwell of the hotel and fvck her in there.

Say stuff like ''this is bad, we shouldn't be doing this'' '' you're my naughty slut'' get her to say she's your slut etc..

They love this sh!t.
 

El Payaso

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I don't know. One place I've done it was in the restroom. It wasn't planned. I just told her to follow me in and we did it. I think the spontaneity is what makes then more likely to do it. Don't plan it ahead with them explicitly.

You could also do it in a park, in a car, an empty classroom, a cemetery (it's really quiet), changing room like you said etc.
 

VladPatton

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El Payaso has a good point...don't tell her anything. Use the element of surprise in your favor. Actually, you can tell her to not wear panties that night, and say nothing more!
 

dasein

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There's always rodeo sex, the shocker and the angry dolphin.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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