"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gravityeyelids

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Okay so i'm going to my girl's town this weekend to party and get a hotel with her. We do this every couple months usually.

Short background on her: I dated her for almost a year in college. She was my neighbor in college, and we had a great relationship. Only reason we "broke up" is because she went to study abroad and graduated afterwards so logistics prevented it. We're still extremely cool and have a FWB type of deal, only thing is she lives like 2 hours away. We're extremely cool with each other and she is super down to earth and drama free. Shes completely cool with this open relationship type of deal we have going on.

So anyway...I want to try something different as far as sex when we see each other. I always give her good sex, but i want to switch it up. She's cool with trying pretty much whatever so long as it's not anal or any butt play or like bondage or whatever. We've played around a little bit with stuff like roleplaying, blindfolding/earplugs, tying her hands together, slapping each other, etc...but i wanna do something new and kinda crazy

Public sex is an option...i just dont know where we would go. I've always wanted to go to a department store and bang in the changing rooms after trying on lingerie or whatever. Nature would be cool too.

Is there any fun props or toys i could bring to the hotel that you guys could think of?

Ideas anyone? :moon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fireballs

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Pull her into the stairwell of the hotel and fvck her in there.

Say stuff like ''this is bad, we shouldn't be doing this'' '' you're my naughty slut'' get her to say she's your slut etc..

They love this sh!t.
 

El Payaso

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I don't know. One place I've done it was in the restroom. It wasn't planned. I just told her to follow me in and we did it. I think the spontaneity is what makes then more likely to do it. Don't plan it ahead with them explicitly.

You could also do it in a park, in a car, an empty classroom, a cemetery (it's really quiet), changing room like you said etc.
 

VladPatton

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El Payaso has a good point...don't tell her anything. Use the element of surprise in your favor. Actually, you can tell her to not wear panties that night, and say nothing more!
 

dasein

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There's always rodeo sex, the shocker and the angry dolphin.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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