"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help me spice up my Sex with this girl

gravityeyelids

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Okay so i'm going to my girl's town this weekend to party and get a hotel with her. We do this every couple months usually.

Short background on her: I dated her for almost a year in college. She was my neighbor in college, and we had a great relationship. Only reason we "broke up" is because she went to study abroad and graduated afterwards so logistics prevented it. We're still extremely cool and have a FWB type of deal, only thing is she lives like 2 hours away. We're extremely cool with each other and she is super down to earth and drama free. Shes completely cool with this open relationship type of deal we have going on.

So anyway...I want to try something different as far as sex when we see each other. I always give her good sex, but i want to switch it up. She's cool with trying pretty much whatever so long as it's not anal or any butt play or like bondage or whatever. We've played around a little bit with stuff like roleplaying, blindfolding/earplugs, tying her hands together, slapping each other, etc...but i wanna do something new and kinda crazy

Public sex is an option...i just dont know where we would go. I've always wanted to go to a department store and bang in the changing rooms after trying on lingerie or whatever. Nature would be cool too.

Is there any fun props or toys i could bring to the hotel that you guys could think of?

Ideas anyone? :moon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fireballs

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Pull her into the stairwell of the hotel and fvck her in there.

Say stuff like ''this is bad, we shouldn't be doing this'' '' you're my naughty slut'' get her to say she's your slut etc..

They love this sh!t.
 

El Payaso

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I don't know. One place I've done it was in the restroom. It wasn't planned. I just told her to follow me in and we did it. I think the spontaneity is what makes then more likely to do it. Don't plan it ahead with them explicitly.

You could also do it in a park, in a car, an empty classroom, a cemetery (it's really quiet), changing room like you said etc.
 

VladPatton

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El Payaso has a good point...don't tell her anything. Use the element of surprise in your favor. Actually, you can tell her to not wear panties that night, and say nothing more!
 

dasein

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There's always rodeo sex, the shocker and the angry dolphin.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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