"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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anile8

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there is this girl called A.
a while back we got a bit culldy at my friends house but nothing happened, i dont know y we were just, well im not sure but we both liked eachother. (that was last yr) Now she is goin out with this guy and they broke up.
every1 went to the movies and after her boyfriend left for a walk "to the cemetary to be cool". all her friends said go sit next to him, go on, GO now is the perfect time. so she moved next to me in the row infront. but i wasnt sure if the boyfriend would get all pissed and try to fight me. but now she is going back out with him and i have told her that i like her several times. this guy is really cool, and whilst im not nerd or nigel im not as cool as him, wat should i do.
and btw i realise that i missed my chance twice and im now pissed at myslef for it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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dude, you didnt miss a chance.
she did.
you told her you liked her several times.
she knows you do.

she likes this dude for whatever reason and is going back out with him.

she thinks it will work out , however we all know it probally won't.

don't compare yourself to him. you are unique and cool all on your own.

i always say to myself when going for someone, " he can have her if he picks her over me."
you can't make everyone be attracted to you.

live and let live.
 

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yea, and i use LYNX AFRICA doedorant. alot of the guys use it, but all the chicks including this 1 think that it smells like $***. U guys got any deodoratns that majority of chicks like, cause i know i cant plz every1
 

penkitten

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Originally posted by anile8
yea, and i use LYNX AFRICA doedorant. alot of the guys use it, but all the chicks including this 1 think that it smells like $***. U guys got any deodoratns that majority of chicks like, cause i know i cant plz every1
personally i dig addias sport. its yummy.
 
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