"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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anile8

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there is this girl called A.
a while back we got a bit culldy at my friends house but nothing happened, i dont know y we were just, well im not sure but we both liked eachother. (that was last yr) Now she is goin out with this guy and they broke up.
every1 went to the movies and after her boyfriend left for a walk "to the cemetary to be cool". all her friends said go sit next to him, go on, GO now is the perfect time. so she moved next to me in the row infront. but i wasnt sure if the boyfriend would get all pissed and try to fight me. but now she is going back out with him and i have told her that i like her several times. this guy is really cool, and whilst im not nerd or nigel im not as cool as him, wat should i do.
and btw i realise that i missed my chance twice and im now pissed at myslef for it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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penkitten

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dude, you didnt miss a chance.
she did.
you told her you liked her several times.
she knows you do.

she likes this dude for whatever reason and is going back out with him.

she thinks it will work out , however we all know it probally won't.

don't compare yourself to him. you are unique and cool all on your own.

i always say to myself when going for someone, " he can have her if he picks her over me."
you can't make everyone be attracted to you.

live and let live.
 

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yea, and i use LYNX AFRICA doedorant. alot of the guys use it, but all the chicks including this 1 think that it smells like $***. U guys got any deodoratns that majority of chicks like, cause i know i cant plz every1
 

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Originally posted by anile8
yea, and i use LYNX AFRICA doedorant. alot of the guys use it, but all the chicks including this 1 think that it smells like $***. U guys got any deodoratns that majority of chicks like, cause i know i cant plz every1
personally i dig addias sport. its yummy.
 
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