"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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alright there is this girl that i have become close with. and like i like her alot and stuff but i really cant tell how she feels about me and like i really dont know if she likes me. but thing is what really throws me off she tells me that she really loves her old boy friend alot and she was saying she want to get back with him. but like a month befor that she told me that liked me a tad, but thats when i wanted to go out with her friend but now i want to go out with her. and like we have hooked up so that told me that she liked me but now i really dont know. can any of you guys help me find out what this girl wants with me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You ever try meditation? You hold the answers within yourself.
 
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what do you mean by that? lol, like dose it have more to do with myself then her?
 
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You have been LJBFed hardcorekilla,you're officially another one of her girlfriends and/or toy and/or source of attention/money and in sight of you aknowledging that and moving on she tries (and succeeds apparently) in luring you back in.It's typical behaviour.
 
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hmmmm

i think i know what your saying by that but like should i say something to her about it? (i dont have alot of luck with this stuff) or like should i stop talking to her for like a week?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would advise on moving on really..or simply put totally next her but if you believe this girl is really special then yes ignore her for some time and then set up a date and escalate.If it goes sour NEXT her without second thought.
 
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