"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alright there is this girl that i have become close with. and like i like her alot and stuff but i really cant tell how she feels about me and like i really dont know if she likes me. but thing is what really throws me off she tells me that she really loves her old boy friend alot and she was saying she want to get back with him. but like a month befor that she told me that liked me a tad, but thats when i wanted to go out with her friend but now i want to go out with her. and like we have hooked up so that told me that she liked me but now i really dont know. can any of you guys help me find out what this girl wants with me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You ever try meditation? You hold the answers within yourself.
 
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what do you mean by that? lol, like dose it have more to do with myself then her?
 
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You have been LJBFed hardcorekilla,you're officially another one of her girlfriends and/or toy and/or source of attention/money and in sight of you aknowledging that and moving on she tries (and succeeds apparently) in luring you back in.It's typical behaviour.
 
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hmmmm

i think i know what your saying by that but like should i say something to her about it? (i dont have alot of luck with this stuff) or like should i stop talking to her for like a week?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would advise on moving on really..or simply put totally next her but if you believe this girl is really special then yes ignore her for some time and then set up a date and escalate.If it goes sour NEXT her without second thought.
 
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