“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hardcorekilla

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alright there is this girl that i have become close with. and like i like her alot and stuff but i really cant tell how she feels about me and like i really dont know if she likes me. but thing is what really throws me off she tells me that she really loves her old boy friend alot and she was saying she want to get back with him. but like a month befor that she told me that liked me a tad, but thats when i wanted to go out with her friend but now i want to go out with her. and like we have hooked up so that told me that she liked me but now i really dont know. can any of you guys help me find out what this girl wants with me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sparky0000

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You ever try meditation? You hold the answers within yourself.
 

hardcorekilla

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what do you mean by that? lol, like dose it have more to do with myself then her?
 

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You have been LJBFed hardcorekilla,you're officially another one of her girlfriends and/or toy and/or source of attention/money and in sight of you aknowledging that and moving on she tries (and succeeds apparently) in luring you back in.It's typical behaviour.
 

hardcorekilla

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hmmmm

i think i know what your saying by that but like should i say something to her about it? (i dont have alot of luck with this stuff) or like should i stop talking to her for like a week?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I would advise on moving on really..or simply put totally next her but if you believe this girl is really special then yes ignore her for some time and then set up a date and escalate.If it goes sour NEXT her without second thought.
 
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