"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BxPrince24

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k, so i seen this girl i started talkin back to today while i was waiting for my friend. She was walkin with some ugly shrek lookin dude, on her way from school, anyways. when she saw me, she started heading towards me. this was our convo.

Her: waddup b*tch?

Me: Waddup slut?

Her: what u doin out here?

Me: I got the pregnancy test. I'm pregnant.

(she turns away and smiles)

Me: I told you, you shoulda wore a f*cking condom!

(she laughs and hits me on the shoulder)

Her: You... (she pauses when her little nephew came up to her side)

Her: So what you doin out here?

Me: I'm waiting for a friend.

Her: Aight, I'm out.

Me: Later.

Now i noticed a few things i kicked myself in the a$$ about. I didn't make use of all the kino opportunities I had. I could have hugged her when she came up to me, I should had stood up instead of staying seated, I could have hit her back, mess with her hair, etc... I also didn't look her in the eyes as much as I should have. And I shoulda asked her for her new number. Overall, is there anything else u think was missing from this encounter that I should be doing in the next.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BxPrince24

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I want to get with her, even if it's just for the summer. She's the only good looking girl in close proximity to me. I was out all day today, didn't find no good looking girls out there when I was looking. I was dressed as good as can be. I had everyone I came into contact with telling me how good i look, etc... And no freakin girls to even try to approach. My area is dead like that, a little too often.

So yea, I'm interested in getting with her. It's not easy to remember all the things that I should be doing though. I'd still like to hear what you guys think about how that brief meeting went and what I should do for the future... I'll keep reading whatever material I can find and try to put it to use whenever i can. thanks.
 

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what the **** can u expect it was like under a minute conversation....
what u need to learn is to plant the seed then watch it grown then frikkin eat the fruit....
U cant really expect people to give u how to handle such a brief moment and pick out everything that is wrong with it or what is good with it....
Well the one thing u did do wrong is getting all insecure and even asking people about this..... read up on the djbible... and plant the seeds....and in a few weeks you can get the fruit.... theres no fast way to get a girl u already known for some time... it takes some time....
 

BxPrince24

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I hear what your saying. The funny thing is I know what to do. I mean, I've just really had it in for this girl in the past. I mean serious one-itis. It seems like that was rearing it's head again. I shut it out tho. But yea. if I run into any REAL problems. I'll post em.
 

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Well I see banter about nothing in your conversation. I don't see anything particularly good or bad about it to discuss. What's your question?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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