"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BxPrince24

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k, so i seen this girl i started talkin back to today while i was waiting for my friend. She was walkin with some ugly shrek lookin dude, on her way from school, anyways. when she saw me, she started heading towards me. this was our convo.

Her: waddup b*tch?

Me: Waddup slut?

Her: what u doin out here?

Me: I got the pregnancy test. I'm pregnant.

(she turns away and smiles)

Me: I told you, you shoulda wore a f*cking condom!

(she laughs and hits me on the shoulder)

Her: You... (she pauses when her little nephew came up to her side)

Her: So what you doin out here?

Me: I'm waiting for a friend.

Her: Aight, I'm out.

Me: Later.

Now i noticed a few things i kicked myself in the a$$ about. I didn't make use of all the kino opportunities I had. I could have hugged her when she came up to me, I should had stood up instead of staying seated, I could have hit her back, mess with her hair, etc... I also didn't look her in the eyes as much as I should have. And I shoulda asked her for her new number. Overall, is there anything else u think was missing from this encounter that I should be doing in the next.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BxPrince24

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I want to get with her, even if it's just for the summer. She's the only good looking girl in close proximity to me. I was out all day today, didn't find no good looking girls out there when I was looking. I was dressed as good as can be. I had everyone I came into contact with telling me how good i look, etc... And no freakin girls to even try to approach. My area is dead like that, a little too often.

So yea, I'm interested in getting with her. It's not easy to remember all the things that I should be doing though. I'd still like to hear what you guys think about how that brief meeting went and what I should do for the future... I'll keep reading whatever material I can find and try to put it to use whenever i can. thanks.
 

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what the **** can u expect it was like under a minute conversation....
what u need to learn is to plant the seed then watch it grown then frikkin eat the fruit....
U cant really expect people to give u how to handle such a brief moment and pick out everything that is wrong with it or what is good with it....
Well the one thing u did do wrong is getting all insecure and even asking people about this..... read up on the djbible... and plant the seeds....and in a few weeks you can get the fruit.... theres no fast way to get a girl u already known for some time... it takes some time....
 

BxPrince24

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I hear what your saying. The funny thing is I know what to do. I mean, I've just really had it in for this girl in the past. I mean serious one-itis. It seems like that was rearing it's head again. I shut it out tho. But yea. if I run into any REAL problems. I'll post em.
 

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Well I see banter about nothing in your conversation. I don't see anything particularly good or bad about it to discuss. What's your question?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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