"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ben15

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Thanks guys I appreciate all the advise. I am going to go for it. Thanks again for the needed motivation and kick in the arse lol. I will let you know how it went.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright, so since the last time we have talked I was supposed to go out with her and get that damn kiss. Well, pretty much, that didn't happen. We never ended up going out, we were both really busy ( I am not using this as an excuse, I really wanted to go out with her but like I said BUSY). So anyway things kinda got a little awkward in school, not bad, like we would talk but she would act really shy. So during all of this I hooked up with some chick that is in college, when I was visiting my older sister at college. My sis had a party and I ended up hooking up with this chick :) So the next week I heard that the girl I have been talking about this whole time supposedly thought this other guy was hot or whatever. I didn't really care and made it seem as if I could care less, which I did. So pretty much she was supposed to hang out with this guy, but I heard that she didn't want to hang out with him alone??, but they never ended up hanging out anyway. So pretty much I haven't talked to her at all during the Thanksgiving break and was wondering if I should call her or wait? I am not sure what to do? I don't know if she still likes me or if things have kinda fizzled. Any help would be great thanks.
 

Morphiex

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well as i like to say its better to have tried and lost then never tried at all....
so call her up and ask her to hang out... if she says yes , then it meens she still likes you , if she says no , then she doesnt like you cuz u waited to long....
then just move on..... shes not the only fish in this world =P

hope that helps...
 

klasik

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you moron! you should've kissed her! you made too many excuses for not doing it. you guys went on so many dates, there must've been a time where you could've done it...yes im being kinda harsh but im tryna slap some sense into you

if you guys go on a date again... kiss her no matter what. do it once you see her... just like the nike slogan.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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