"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ben15

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Thanks guys I appreciate all the advise. I am going to go for it. Thanks again for the needed motivation and kick in the arse lol. I will let you know how it went.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ben15

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Alright, so since the last time we have talked I was supposed to go out with her and get that damn kiss. Well, pretty much, that didn't happen. We never ended up going out, we were both really busy ( I am not using this as an excuse, I really wanted to go out with her but like I said BUSY). So anyway things kinda got a little awkward in school, not bad, like we would talk but she would act really shy. So during all of this I hooked up with some chick that is in college, when I was visiting my older sister at college. My sis had a party and I ended up hooking up with this chick :) So the next week I heard that the girl I have been talking about this whole time supposedly thought this other guy was hot or whatever. I didn't really care and made it seem as if I could care less, which I did. So pretty much she was supposed to hang out with this guy, but I heard that she didn't want to hang out with him alone??, but they never ended up hanging out anyway. So pretty much I haven't talked to her at all during the Thanksgiving break and was wondering if I should call her or wait? I am not sure what to do? I don't know if she still likes me or if things have kinda fizzled. Any help would be great thanks.
 

Morphiex

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well as i like to say its better to have tried and lost then never tried at all....
so call her up and ask her to hang out... if she says yes , then it meens she still likes you , if she says no , then she doesnt like you cuz u waited to long....
then just move on..... shes not the only fish in this world =P

hope that helps...
 

klasik

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you moron! you should've kissed her! you made too many excuses for not doing it. you guys went on so many dates, there must've been a time where you could've done it...yes im being kinda harsh but im tryna slap some sense into you

if you guys go on a date again... kiss her no matter what. do it once you see her... just like the nike slogan.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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