"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help me out Fellas?

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tmac15

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Alright fellas I need some help. How do I come back. I’ve been dating this girl for about 5-6 months now, and I must admit I’ve become p*s*y whipped. I have oneitis. I love the s** and all. My friends say that I’m p*s*y whipped.

I definitely like the girl how do I use this to my advantage. Help me come back to my own life and draw her closer (and make her chase)?? Help me balance it out?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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radiodude

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There's alot of terminology that gets thrown around I don't agree with. Whipped is a relative term to refer to an imbalance in the dynamic of the relationship.

Here is what you do:

Make time for yourself and your freinds more. Go out with the guys. Don't say yes everythime she wants you to go shopping with her or do something for her. Keep busy and while not cutting her off, make yourself busy enough to only focus on the important things in your relationship.

Put some distance between you and her and see how things go.

You know what to do so go do it.
 
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Willis

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Theres only 1 way to solve this problem........





kill her....
 
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Allurre

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You need to do things you're truly passionate about -- and chasing women doesn't count.

This will take your mind off women.

For example, I own a streetwear fashion x hip hop music co. http://www.luxlivlinonline.com -- that's my baby there.

I devote my day and night to nurturing it. Yes, I have a girlfriend,
but never am I whipped or have a boiling "need" to be around her.
 
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