"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help me out Fellas?

tmac15

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Alright fellas I need some help. How do I come back. I’ve been dating this girl for about 5-6 months now, and I must admit I’ve become p*s*y whipped. I have oneitis. I love the s** and all. My friends say that I’m p*s*y whipped.

I definitely like the girl how do I use this to my advantage. Help me come back to my own life and draw her closer (and make her chase)?? Help me balance it out?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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radiodude

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There's alot of terminology that gets thrown around I don't agree with. Whipped is a relative term to refer to an imbalance in the dynamic of the relationship.

Here is what you do:

Make time for yourself and your freinds more. Go out with the guys. Don't say yes everythime she wants you to go shopping with her or do something for her. Keep busy and while not cutting her off, make yourself busy enough to only focus on the important things in your relationship.

Put some distance between you and her and see how things go.

You know what to do so go do it.
 

Willis

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Theres only 1 way to solve this problem........





kill her....
 

Allurre

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You need to do things you're truly passionate about -- and chasing women doesn't count.

This will take your mind off women.

For example, I own a streetwear fashion x hip hop music co. http://www.luxlivlinonline.com -- that's my baby there.

I devote my day and night to nurturing it. Yes, I have a girlfriend,
but never am I whipped or have a boiling "need" to be around her.
 
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