"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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xomel

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Originally posted by Vincent
Don't even give me that :mad:.

"If I lose 20 lbs, THEN i can wear that". I say BS... You can wear it now, your just too timid. You gotta get over that. I'm not muscular, not particularly skinny, small framed, short, etc etc, and I STILL wear it, you know why? Because it still looks good!

You gotta just face your fears. Don't use clothes to cover yourself up, use clothes to make yourself look damn good!
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Vincent couldnt be more right.

"If i lose 20lbs, THEN i can wear that."
That is something that is coming from a girl.

heres my pic by the way:

http://vhalin.nuclearfallout.net/picture006.jpeg
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Balanced

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vincent you look depressed in that picture. Smile man.

xomel, Put that chin up so you look confident.
 
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splinterkb

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hoooooooly **** get a haircut for starters... pants that fit would be good too... contacts maybe..and..yeah
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by Balanced
vincent you look depressed in that picture. Smile man.

xomel, Put that chin up so you look confident.
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I was going for the tough guy look, but heres a picture of me smiling
 
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This Times For Real

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Holy **** wtf am I doing? I havnt been to the gym in 2 weeks. Thats it. This month I become skinny and no more ****ing excuses.

This times for real
 
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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Holy **** wtf am I doing? I havnt been to the gym in 2 weeks. Thats it. This month I become skinny and no more ****ing excuses.

This times for real
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thats muh boy!

Go get em buddy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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