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Hey. I updated the site. Check the bottom for new stuff...

http://www.angelfire.com/ab8/omgtehomg

Ok.

Today I got a haircut *which I cant say im super excited about* Shaved the burns and took my glasses off to see whatd I look like with contacts. Contacts would probably take some time to get, but you guys get the idea from the pic. Any more suggestions now for my style of clothing?
 

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HUGE improvement!

That shirt you were wearing in the first pics, I saw three kids wearing it at school today. That whole style is played out.

Definitely get some clothes that fit you, that white shirt looks a lot better (though I know it's an undershirt).

Nice job. :)
 

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Keep up the good work man.
 

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NIIICE IMPROVEMENT! Sorry but you looked like some loser with your hair it was before man. Now it looks hellalot better. Now whatcha gotta do is getcha some clothes dude.

None of that Fubu stuff, south pole, rocawear stuff.
 

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No more Bozo The Clown hair! Woohoo!

Contacts shouldn't really be hard to get...Just go to your optomotrist and he can get you hooked up.

As far as clothes go, I would personally recommend polo shirts, long sleeve button-down shirts, and some nice jeans. And make sure they fit - they don't have to be skin tight, but the outline of your body should be very well formed.
 

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Excellent job buddy! It's nice to see that some people listen to the advice given on this site and have the balls to go out and do new things, even if they mean change.

Now go get them ladies. :cool:
 

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nice hair buddy :D

Lookin good, keep up the work.
 

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I mentioned this on another thread, but I'm gonna say it again here:

Glasses AREN'T bad. I used to wear contacts, but later realized that a pair of stylish glasses can boost your appearance BIG TIME. I know so many people that don't even need glasses, but they wear them anyway 'cuz they look BETTER in them. It's all about finding glasses that compliment your face well. Yours don't, but that's okay. My old glasses hella sucked.

If you like contacts, get them. It's a preference. But make sure you check out a lot of frames before you decide, or you might be sorry :p
 

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Nice new style.

1) Now buy some gel, pomades, and glues... and play with them to find a nice hairstyle.

2) Go here and buy MicroTouch. You should be able to buy it at any store. It's popular. Use it for your eyebrows, sideburns, or whatever. It's cheap, $10 US. Worth it, I use it every 3 days. I've plucked some of my eyebrows too, but that's up to you. I personally look way better now with that being done.

http://www.folica.com/MicroTouch_Men__d385.html

3) Start working out again.

You already have clear skin, a nice smile, white teeth and nice eyes. Good job bro.
 

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Great job!!!!

Next step.....thin out those eyebrows........
 

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Way to go man, the hair cut realllllllllly.....realllllllllly.........really helped lol.

Far as clothes go, buy some stuff that fits lol. If some of the clothes is southpole then thats fine. I wear southpole clothes and I still get told that i'm a good dresser. Try some abercrombie, AE, exc. If you want. I wouldn't make that the main kind've clothing to buy. Simply becuase the sh*t is outragously high. I know a guy that paid 80 some bucks for some abercrombie jeans that had holes in them. (shakes head) You can find all kinds of cheap clothes that look really good.

Wal-mart has some nice clothes, just got to look around. Try different stuff untill you find a style ya like. Keep us updated on your transformation. :)
 

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this may be on the metero sexual side but:

1. You have green eyes and dark skin, thats a rarity. from my experience most girls love green eyes AND dark skin but to find them together is a rarity. Dont cover your eyes with those glasses.

2. do something to your eyebrows, they look like pubic hair

3. get a hair cut

4. clothes that fit, be clean clut, or if you prefer a clean cut gangsta. but just being clean cut works.
 

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One thing that would really help with your appearance is if you resize your images :p

I mean i'm on ethernet, and it takes a long time. We all really appreciate the quality of pictures, but i know i'd appreciate more having to wait less time ;)

Just a thought.

Oh ya, dress better. That gangster look is such crap. The only chicks your gonna get are cholo trash (no offense to anyone).
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
One thing that would really help with your appearance is if you resize your images :p

I mean i'm on ethernet, and it takes a long time. We all really appreciate the quality of pictures, but i know i'd appreciate more having to wait less time ;)

Just a thought.

Oh ya, dress better. That gangster look is such crap. The only chicks your gonna get are cholo trash (no offense to anyone).
Next pics I post will be smaller.
 

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Originally posted by xomel
this may be on the metero sexual side but:

1. You have green eyes and dark skin, thats a rarity. from my experience most girls love green eyes AND dark skin but to find them together is a rarity. Dont cover your eyes with those glasses.

2. do something to your eyebrows, they look like pubic hair

3. get a hair cut

4. clothes that fit, be clean clut, or if you prefer a clean cut gangsta. but just being clean cut works.
What is clean cut?
 

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
What is clean cut?
See: Abercrombie style.

As in "well groomed and dressed." Very clean and cut looking.
 

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
What is clean cut?
Clothes that aren't 4 sizes too big, they show off your form, not the lack there off.

Stores such as Gap, Express, American Eagle, Holister, etc etc...

Your clothes are uhm.. lets just cut to the chase, you dress like crap...

I'm sure you like not worrying your small form (maybe) and your fat, but you need to get over that. I know I did. Look at my picture, See how my shirt fits the form of my body http://www.facethejury.com/profile.asp?user_name=Vincent Thats what you want. Maybe a little looser but not much.

Also your pants should be more form fitting. Boot cuts at Express are always good choice. Go and check it out.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
Clothes that aren't 4 sizes too big, they show off your form, not the lack there off.

Stores such as Gap, Express, American Eagle, Holister, etc etc...

Your clothes are uhm.. lets just cut to the chase, you dress like crap...

I'm sure you like not worrying your small form (maybe) and your fat, but you need to get over that. I know I did. Look at my picture, See how my shirt fits the form of my body http://www.facethejury.com/profile.asp?user_name=Vincent Thats what you want. Maybe a little looser but not much.

Also your pants should be more form fitting. Boot cuts at Express are always good choice. Go and check it out.
Ah well i cant wear those because my form is disgusting. I need to lose more weight to be able to wear those clothes.
 

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Ah well i cant wear those because my form is disgusting. I need to lose more weight to be able to wear those clothes.
Don't even give me that :mad:.

"If I lose 20 lbs, THEN i can wear that". I say BS... You can wear it now, your just too timid. You gotta get over that. I'm not muscular, not particularly skinny, small framed, short, etc etc, and I STILL wear it, you know why? Because it still looks good!

You gotta just face your fears. Don't use clothes to cover yourself up, use clothes to make yourself look damn good!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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