"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PVSSY-EATER

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Where are the best places to go to learn how to truly defend yourself in an encounter. I have been involved in martial arts in the past, and all I learned was forms and kicks that I cant use in a real street fight. This will help me relax more around people that I know dont like me that much. IF they try to start something, I want to be able to kick ass instead of getting my ass kicked like I have done so many times in the past. :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Youve been learning crappy MAs. I too wasted a few years on useless garbage.

Striking + Grappling = good self defense

Learn some Muay Thai, add Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, or submission grappling, and you'll be good.

to learn more about MMA, etc. Check out sherdog.net, and ironlife.com forums. Lots of MA guys there.
 

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Um, find someone who takes martial arts and spar with them. It doesn't have to be full contact, but light jabs or something. I used to box with my buddies in high school, you naturally get better at reading a persons next move and countering it. Just my 2cents.
 

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OK, I had a in depth discussion about this with other members of the forum..see the link below..

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=608126#post608126

If you want to focus specifically on self defense..

Check out the Geoff Thompson stuff..is stuff is reality based self defense

www.geoffthompson.com

Check out Hocks forum which covers close quarter combat at

http://www.hockscqc.com/

This stuff will get you to the nitty gritty without having to spend years studying some martial art..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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