"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey all,

Just got out of a 3 year relationship that ended with her cheating and I'm pretty ready to get back out there...however realistically it's been a while and I'm hoping for input to improve my success in doing so.

I created a tinder account which I plan on using to supplement my plan for meeting women and I'm looking for feedback on what you all think I could improve to create a higher success rate with my profile.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That last photo looks like you tried to fake a smile. Consider replacing it
 
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You aren't going to find any quality woman on Tinder or OLD in general. Think of it as the Free Agency for women. Most of the women on their have issues that handicap them from finding or keeping a guy. If there is a quality girl that is on there, most likely she just broke up with her bf and her time spent on it is brief.
 
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Delete Tinder; that's how I can help you to improve your Tinder.

Also, forget online dating websites, if you really want to meet a quality girl/woman.

Go traditional route and meet girls/women in real life. If you are not attractive enough, improve yourself and make yourself attractive. There are no shortcuts. We are all in it.
 
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Vivacity said:
Delete Tinder; that's how I can help you to improve your Tinder.

Also, forget online dating websites, if you really want to meet a quality girl/woman.

Go traditional route and meet girls/women in real life. If you are not attractive enough, improve yourself and make yourself attractive. There are no shortcuts. We are all in it.
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^This

But, if you must do it, check this out. It's got some good tips.
http://www.tinderseduction.com/tinder-profile-setup/profile-setup/
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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