"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Imagine21c

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Hey all,

Just got out of a 3 year relationship that ended with her cheating and I'm pretty ready to get back out there...however realistically it's been a while and I'm hoping for input to improve my success in doing so.

I created a tinder account which I plan on using to supplement my plan for meeting women and I'm looking for feedback on what you all think I could improve to create a higher success rate with my profile.

Images included in the link below:

https://imgur.com/a/nGwBU
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AlphaNoob

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That last photo looks like you tried to fake a smile. Consider replacing it
 

Dhoulmagus

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You aren't going to find any quality woman on Tinder or OLD in general. Think of it as the Free Agency for women. Most of the women on their have issues that handicap them from finding or keeping a guy. If there is a quality girl that is on there, most likely she just broke up with her bf and her time spent on it is brief.
 

Vivacity

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Delete Tinder; that's how I can help you to improve your Tinder.

Also, forget online dating websites, if you really want to meet a quality girl/woman.

Go traditional route and meet girls/women in real life. If you are not attractive enough, improve yourself and make yourself attractive. There are no shortcuts. We are all in it.
 

Young OG

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Delete Tinder; that's how I can help you to improve your Tinder.

Also, forget online dating websites, if you really want to meet a quality girl/woman.

Go traditional route and meet girls/women in real life. If you are not attractive enough, improve yourself and make yourself attractive. There are no shortcuts. We are all in it.
^This

But, if you must do it, check this out. It's got some good tips.
http://www.tinderseduction.com/tinder-profile-setup/profile-setup/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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