"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jdawgmcb

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Now i know im not the best looking guy around, so i'd like you to let me know what i can do to my face to make it look better.

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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vitor

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I agree go get a Short haircut, a #1 on the sides with a fade, cut your hair short, maybe spike it up. Get some sun, get some Contacts, and clean your room.
 

cordoncordon

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You're not a bad looking guy at all. In fact I would go on to say that as you get older you are going to be a very good looking guy, especially if you work on your body. But facially you have a ton to work with.

Just off the top of my head. Lose the glasses. Hideous. Get a hair cut. I would say shorter and either a fauxhawk or a messy spike look.

Grow some sort of chin facial hair, or a slight beard with the cheeks shaved so the hair rims the outside of your face.

Good luck!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AaJ321

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The obvious would probably be loose the glasses, work out. Get a tan, Than visit a high quality hairstylist. In right now is short, faux hawk. Either way if your paying for a quality haircut you can ask them what would work best for your face.
 

eaglez1177

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jdawgmcb said:
Now i know im not the best looking guy around, so i'd like you to let me know what i can do to my face to make it look better.

No homo, but your actually a good lucking guy. If you get rid of the glasses, get some contacts, get a new haircut (shorter, cuz ur hair doesnt seem that curly when its long and in my opinion, long hair only works if its curly). You dont need to be darkly tanned, but you def dont wanna be white as a ghost. Finally, work out a little bit, ya know just get some cut and tone to you.

I think if you can do all that, your gonna wind up as not a good lookin guy, but a GREAT looking guy. Your lucky that you have a clean face with no acne and clear skin.
 

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vitor said:
I agree go get a Short haircut, a #1 on the sides with a fade, cut your hair short, maybe spike it up. Get some sun, get some Contacts, and clean your room.
dont want to start a debate about the best hair length but ive gotta disagree with that. my personal opinion is that short spiked up hair is a bit boyish and makes you look younger.

i've got longish hair and it suits me, i think it would a lot of guys too.

and yeah a tan always looks good, but it won't change your game much i don't think

im white as paper and skinny but i don't let it affect me, everyone has something they'd change
 

dbot

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keep the glasses, darken your hair, and wear tight jeans and a black shirt with a skull or the name of a band on it.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Dude get thinner frames if you dont want to get into contacts and quit worrying about looking bad. I would not rate your face but I would rate your confidence low because you're worrying about what other people think about your looks.
You'd look sweet with a buzzcut, or even with your hair gelled up.

Other than that, clean your room, smile more and work on that confidence damnit!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was joking with my last post, but if you're going to keep the glasses, do NOT get thinner frames. Glasses should be emphasized for style. They should also compliment the rest of your features, so seriously consider darkening your hair and clothes to go with the frames. Trust me, it will make a huge difference. I wear thick, black glasses and I pull it off very well :D
 

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I don't see anything wrong with you. If its your style then stick with it. Don't be a sheep and get a short hair cut because everybody else is. I think the most important thing is to show women that you look after yourself. That shows that you like yourself and value yourself ie high value.


What sort of cloths and shoes do you wear? Thats what you should be concentrating on regarding appearance. Also diet, fitness etc.
 

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I'm going to be straight up with you. You're a good looking kid, but it's hidden by that unkept hair and thick glasses. That style looks like a cross between Shaggy and Velma from Scooby Doo.

Either sweep you hair across like so or get it cut short and messy.
 

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You could even keep the frames, get your hair cut like the one maverick suggests or something asymetrical and it would work well together.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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You look fine to me... If you want to change your appearance though... Maybe, use contacts or glasses that arent as thick. Style your hair different or get it cut. Maybe, even grow some facial hair.
 

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im not being the guy that says "get a haircut" to everyone with longish hair but short hair would suit you better
 

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jdawgmcb said:
Now i know im not the best looking guy around, so i'd like you to let me know what i can do to my face to make it look better.

Just get a medium haircut and get those rimless glasses or better yet go for contacts.

Join a gym if you don't feel fit in your clothes.
 

DJDamage

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jdawgmcb said:
Now i know im not the best looking guy around, so i'd like you to let me know what i can do to my face to make it look better.

Get a positive personality to start first of.

Secondly, if you want the harsh truth, there is nothing wrong with you but you choose to look like an overgrown Harry Potter Fan and this look gots to go.

- The Glasses got to go. They are too thick. Look for contacts instead.
- Now I know you can be more creative with your hair, find yourself a barber and get a trendy haircut.
- You look like a skinny dude (just by the face) so bulking up will work wonders for you.
- Also try to grow some facial hair, you do have a baby face which makes it look like you are younger then you are.

Good luck.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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