"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok this is over a net, profile thing. I know what your thinking, but i have met loads of grls this way, I know if i get her MSN, and shes not stuck up, we'll meet within 2 weeks!

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lol... didnt mean it lk tha! i meant it as in i prefer to message ppl first get to knw em a bit b4 addin em on MSN!! but if u dnt wna knw? :S x x

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haha ok, your loss, if you ever change your mind messege me.

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hey same to u! lol.. i dnt give my addie out easily :p u okay? x x
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nice profile, and stunning pics. Wanna chat on MSN?

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Should i bother replying? What you guys think I could say?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Get her on MSN, chat for a few minutes, get her number and get a date. Move quickly

The reason why I suggest you move quickly is this has got to be the most dragged out way to get women. Meet on a singles site, chat on MSN, get her email, send her an email, wait for her to get it, get her number, go out on a date. It's such a dragged out process to meet a woman, and it's a waste of time. Using the internet to meet women is useful when you're up at night when everything's closed, or you're a single father.

we'll meet within 2 weeks!
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Again, much slower than meeting them in real life. Meet woman, get her number, call her, set up a date, and you've got success in about a week.
 
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I said within 2 weeks. It's normaly 3 days.

Don't get me wrong, I meet girls all places. The net is just a tool to meet even more :)
 
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neways what should I say in the reply.
 
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lol... didnt mean it lk tha! i meant it as in i prefer to message ppl first get to knw em a bit b4 addin em on MSN!! but if u dnt wna knw? :S x x
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Christ, I can barely read this 5hit. How about telling her "You write just like my 4 year old cousin. It's really cute!"

She sounds like she's trying to take charge of the situation, and a nice Neg-hit might put you back in charge. Plus, you'll be able to read her writing afterwards.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Get her on MSN, chat for a few minutes, get her number and get a date. Move quickly

The reason why I suggest you move quickly is this has got to be the most dragged out way to get women. Meet on a singles site, chat on MSN, get her email, send her an email, wait for her to get it, get her number, go out on a date. It's such a dragged out process to meet a woman, and it's a waste of time. Using the internet to meet women is useful when you're up at night when everything's closed, or you're a single father.


Again, much slower than meeting them in real life. Meet woman, get her number, call her, set up a date, and you've got success in about a week.
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I agree with moving quick, so why not skip the BS and just ask to meet up somewhere when you are in IM? When you meet, she'll automatically give you her number if she's into you (ie - high IL).
 
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Originally posted by Desdinova
Christ, I can barely read this 5hit. How about telling her "You write just like my 4 year old cousin. It's really cute!"

She sounds like she's trying to take charge of the situation, and a nice Neg-hit might put you back in charge. Plus, you'll be able to read her writing afterwards.
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lol

i'm still trying to figure out what this says

u dnt wna knw? :S x x
 
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Originally posted by christz
lol

i'm still trying to figure out what this says

u dnt wna knw? :S x x
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don't you want to know?
 
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