"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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S0LID

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ok this is over a net, profile thing. I know what your thinking, but i have met loads of grls this way, I know if i get her MSN, and shes not stuck up, we'll meet within 2 weeks!

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lol... didnt mean it lk tha! i meant it as in i prefer to message ppl first get to knw em a bit b4 addin em on MSN!! but if u dnt wna knw? :S x x

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haha ok, your loss, if you ever change your mind messege me.

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hey same to u! lol.. i dnt give my addie out easily :p u okay? x x
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nice profile, and stunning pics. Wanna chat on MSN?

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Should i bother replying? What you guys think I could say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Get her on MSN, chat for a few minutes, get her number and get a date. Move quickly

The reason why I suggest you move quickly is this has got to be the most dragged out way to get women. Meet on a singles site, chat on MSN, get her email, send her an email, wait for her to get it, get her number, go out on a date. It's such a dragged out process to meet a woman, and it's a waste of time. Using the internet to meet women is useful when you're up at night when everything's closed, or you're a single father.

we'll meet within 2 weeks!
Again, much slower than meeting them in real life. Meet woman, get her number, call her, set up a date, and you've got success in about a week.
 

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I said within 2 weeks. It's normaly 3 days.

Don't get me wrong, I meet girls all places. The net is just a tool to meet even more :)
 

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neways what should I say in the reply.
 

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lol... didnt mean it lk tha! i meant it as in i prefer to message ppl first get to knw em a bit b4 addin em on MSN!! but if u dnt wna knw? :S x x
Christ, I can barely read this 5hit. How about telling her "You write just like my 4 year old cousin. It's really cute!"

She sounds like she's trying to take charge of the situation, and a nice Neg-hit might put you back in charge. Plus, you'll be able to read her writing afterwards.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Get her on MSN, chat for a few minutes, get her number and get a date. Move quickly

The reason why I suggest you move quickly is this has got to be the most dragged out way to get women. Meet on a singles site, chat on MSN, get her email, send her an email, wait for her to get it, get her number, go out on a date. It's such a dragged out process to meet a woman, and it's a waste of time. Using the internet to meet women is useful when you're up at night when everything's closed, or you're a single father.


Again, much slower than meeting them in real life. Meet woman, get her number, call her, set up a date, and you've got success in about a week.
I agree with moving quick, so why not skip the BS and just ask to meet up somewhere when you are in IM? When you meet, she'll automatically give you her number if she's into you (ie - high IL).
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Christ, I can barely read this 5hit. How about telling her "You write just like my 4 year old cousin. It's really cute!"

She sounds like she's trying to take charge of the situation, and a nice Neg-hit might put you back in charge. Plus, you'll be able to read her writing afterwards.
lol

i'm still trying to figure out what this says

u dnt wna knw? :S x x
 

S0LID

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Originally posted by christz
lol

i'm still trying to figure out what this says

u dnt wna knw? :S x x
don't you want to know?
 
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