dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
ROLLONG ON THE FLOOR LAUGHING MY A$$ OFF bumma excuse caps
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
WHAT?wolf116 said:Man, Bruce Lee's style of training is exelent for fancy, eastern martial arts. But no good for wresteling and boxing(if weight divesions dident exist).
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hydroblunt said:WHAT?
Dude, this is the dumbest most ignorant thing you have said so far, and you said a few. Bruce Lee is the father of MMA and was/still is one of the strongest men ever. You should read up on his feats of strength, which by the way, are IDEAL for submission/grappling. And boxing is not about strength but technique, which requires muscle control, another key trait of Bruce Lee.
His training regimen is the cornerstone of the top strength training programs, especially for military & armed forces.
I do not even understand why you are trying to gain weight. The best tactic is losing a little bit so that you can cut down to a lower weight division and come in the day off with a big advantage in grappling (standing & ground). You sound perfect for 185 lbs class.
And you wanna look like Andrei Arlovski, well, he is genetically gifted and eats a low carb/high protein diet just to have that six pack & maintain it. He is very lean, only 235lbs, which is kinda low for a HW class. But he is very strong and quite skilled, although not top 5.
Physique means nothing in fighting arts, need any proof? take a look at Fedor (hope you know who that is). He does only calisthetics, no weights, his true raw strength comes from Sambo.
P.S. If you're taking painkillers already, that's bad. You are not going to have much of a career and only steps away from roids. Chill out on the traditional Muay Thai training, you DO NOT wanna be one of those guys.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.