Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Help Me Get Back Up

Oni

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Things have been going downhill for me lately. All of a sudden i just lost my game. At the same time, my skin which has been clear for months suddenly had a terrible breakout. Just like that my moral and self-esteem diminished.

How can I, who had finally gotten control of my life suddenly meet this impedement. Everything was going extremely well for me and suddenly disaster struck. It's really getting to me and lately i just lost it. I am now a back to where i used to be years ago: quiet, pessimistic, boring, etc. I just cant find it in me to bring myself back up, to overcome this obstacle that i had once passed.

So if anybody, can advice, i will appreciate.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So you're crying because you got a few pimples on your face?

You never had game to begin with. I see pizza faces everywhere smooching HBs, you should be no different.
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
So you're crying because you got a few pimples on your face?

You never had game to begin with. I see pizza faces everywhere smooching HBs, you should be no different.
worrrrrrrrrrrrrd.
 

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dood, i have clear skin and good looks but my friend who has a few pimples on his face still gets more chicks than me.... so i don't think that should matter
 

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Here is a pic of me. I have acne bad, yet it doesn't stop me from getting girls. It is all about confidence and Hygiene. People obviously know I have acne, but they no Itry and take care of it and I have a pretty high self-esteem.

You are what you make of yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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