"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help Me Get Back Up

Oni

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Things have been going downhill for me lately. All of a sudden i just lost my game. At the same time, my skin which has been clear for months suddenly had a terrible breakout. Just like that my moral and self-esteem diminished.

How can I, who had finally gotten control of my life suddenly meet this impedement. Everything was going extremely well for me and suddenly disaster struck. It's really getting to me and lately i just lost it. I am now a back to where i used to be years ago: quiet, pessimistic, boring, etc. I just cant find it in me to bring myself back up, to overcome this obstacle that i had once passed.

So if anybody, can advice, i will appreciate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So you're crying because you got a few pimples on your face?

You never had game to begin with. I see pizza faces everywhere smooching HBs, you should be no different.
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
So you're crying because you got a few pimples on your face?

You never had game to begin with. I see pizza faces everywhere smooching HBs, you should be no different.
worrrrrrrrrrrrrd.
 

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dood, i have clear skin and good looks but my friend who has a few pimples on his face still gets more chicks than me.... so i don't think that should matter
 

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Here is a pic of me. I have acne bad, yet it doesn't stop me from getting girls. It is all about confidence and Hygiene. People obviously know I have acne, but they no Itry and take care of it and I have a pretty high self-esteem.

You are what you make of yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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