"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help Me Get Back Up

Oni

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Things have been going downhill for me lately. All of a sudden i just lost my game. At the same time, my skin which has been clear for months suddenly had a terrible breakout. Just like that my moral and self-esteem diminished.

How can I, who had finally gotten control of my life suddenly meet this impedement. Everything was going extremely well for me and suddenly disaster struck. It's really getting to me and lately i just lost it. I am now a back to where i used to be years ago: quiet, pessimistic, boring, etc. I just cant find it in me to bring myself back up, to overcome this obstacle that i had once passed.

So if anybody, can advice, i will appreciate.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So you're crying because you got a few pimples on your face?

You never had game to begin with. I see pizza faces everywhere smooching HBs, you should be no different.
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
So you're crying because you got a few pimples on your face?

You never had game to begin with. I see pizza faces everywhere smooching HBs, you should be no different.
worrrrrrrrrrrrrd.
 

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dood, i have clear skin and good looks but my friend who has a few pimples on his face still gets more chicks than me.... so i don't think that should matter
 

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Here is a pic of me. I have acne bad, yet it doesn't stop me from getting girls. It is all about confidence and Hygiene. People obviously know I have acne, but they no Itry and take care of it and I have a pretty high self-esteem.

You are what you make of yourself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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