"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Started seeing this girl last week. She seems crazy about me, and I am into her as well, I must say. Actually let a couple plates get cold, spending time with her. I was also having to be very disciplined as far as not blowing her up with texts, etc. I'm good now though. Just wanted to pose a couple questions to the board to get some feedback. This is **** I never would have caught or given a **** about before I started reading this forum. Still dont care, just want to know if my BS meter is becoming more finely tuned.

1. She metioned that her male coworker keeps texting her and that her coworkers are trying to "hook them up". Is this a test? Do guys actually say, " hey, i thought you liked MEEEE?" ( i ignored this comment) and made sweet love to her a few hours later.

2. After we have great sex on our second date, she casually mentions a couple times how her last bf, was clingy and she is glad that I dont seem to be. IS SHE PROJECTING HERE? Is she preparing me to have her cling?
(ignored this too.)

3. She will go kind of hot and cold. What is this? In the kitchen or anywhere else for that matter if I try to kiss her or anything like that, she gets kind of wierded out. For example, if I try to french kiss her at 5 in the afternoon while drinking a margharita, she will not accept a full on kiss. Only little kisses. Or one kiss, and then turn away. But at night, I will press her and she enjoys the hell out of giving it up. Then the next day, same thing, shes all business. IS THIS THE BEGININNG OF A POWER PLAY? 2 days ago was passionate as hell. I go over there for a movie last night and I felt like I was watching a movie with a female friend. I was looking for an opening to seguay into porno sex on the couch, but there was an impenetrable fortress around her interest in being aroused. Is she trying to see how aggressive Ill get?

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I think shes playing games and that her interest level isnt really that high. I also think you've already put her on a pedestal..Wrong move dude. Stop over analyzing and back off a bit
 
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Ive thought about that. But SHE is the one blowing me up, setting up the dates, does NOT flake, asks me to sleep with her, and hangs on every word. How is she not high interest? Haha...
Shamefully, I have put her on a pedastall though...
 
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Girls will do this. She probably can be an attention wh0re looking for attention, I suggest you pick up those old plates or spin some new ones...What exactly are you trying to do? Just fvck her? or you want a relationship?
 
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You might be a great f... and a good way to pass time. Stay occupied w/ other interests, plates, and hobbies. Make her work for the d+++
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Man there is a lot of blind leading the blind on this board.... good lord!


1. She metioned that her male coworker keeps texting her and that her coworkers are trying to "hook them up". Is this a test? Do guys actually say, " hey, i thought you liked MEEEE?" ( i ignored this comment) and made sweet love to her a few hours later.
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Yes its a test, but women don't test you consciously; its a subconscious deal just like its almost automatic for us to stare at a chick who is wearing a tight dress. And yes, tons of chumps would get mad, jealous and project their feelings after hearing something like this.... Ignoring the comment is good, even better is to say in response:

"awww poor guy, you should give him a chance; you never know he might end up being the best thing that ever happened to you!" (while smiling)

2. After we have great sex on our second date, she casually mentions a couple times how her last bf, was clingy and she is glad that I dont seem to be. IS SHE PROJECTING HERE? Is she preparing me to have her cling?
(ignored this too.)
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Your over-analyzing on this one; she's simply stating a fact. That she likes that you have self control and have a life outside of her. This is a clear cut sign telling you how to keep her interested; don't be clingy, which is obvious.

3. She will go kind of hot and cold. What is this? In the kitchen or anywhere else for that matter if I try to kiss her or anything like that, she gets kind of wierded out. For example, if I try to french kiss her at 5 in the afternoon while drinking a margharita, she will not accept a full on kiss. Only little kisses. Or one kiss, and then turn away. But at night, I will press her and she enjoys the hell out of giving it up. Then the next day, same thing, shes all business.
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No not so much a power play as it is her not liking to kiss that much outside of the bedroom. The solution? Don't kiss her as much; taking away kisses will either make her miss them and she will start initiating them or will take you back to neutral ground on that issue.

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What you need to work on is developing true self confidence. Women will sub-conciously test you all the time to see if you are CONSISTENT with your behavior. Any chinks or cracks in your armor and they start to expose the real you. But if the real you is a self assured, confident male; she will be hooked on you for a long time. And all these little "tests" won't phase you.


Also one of the basics in learning game and understanding women is:


"NEVER LISTEN TO WHAT A GIRL SAYS, FOR THE TRUTH WATCH HER ACTIONS."





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