"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Started seeing this girl last week. She seems crazy about me, and I am into her as well, I must say. Actually let a couple plates get cold, spending time with her. I was also having to be very disciplined as far as not blowing her up with texts, etc. I'm good now though. Just wanted to pose a couple questions to the board to get some feedback. This is **** I never would have caught or given a **** about before I started reading this forum. Still dont care, just want to know if my BS meter is becoming more finely tuned.

1. She metioned that her male coworker keeps texting her and that her coworkers are trying to "hook them up". Is this a test? Do guys actually say, " hey, i thought you liked MEEEE?" ( i ignored this comment) and made sweet love to her a few hours later.

2. After we have great sex on our second date, she casually mentions a couple times how her last bf, was clingy and she is glad that I dont seem to be. IS SHE PROJECTING HERE? Is she preparing me to have her cling?
(ignored this too.)

3. She will go kind of hot and cold. What is this? In the kitchen or anywhere else for that matter if I try to kiss her or anything like that, she gets kind of wierded out. For example, if I try to french kiss her at 5 in the afternoon while drinking a margharita, she will not accept a full on kiss. Only little kisses. Or one kiss, and then turn away. But at night, I will press her and she enjoys the hell out of giving it up. Then the next day, same thing, shes all business. IS THIS THE BEGININNG OF A POWER PLAY? 2 days ago was passionate as hell. I go over there for a movie last night and I felt like I was watching a movie with a female friend. I was looking for an opening to seguay into porno sex on the couch, but there was an impenetrable fortress around her interest in being aroused. Is she trying to see how aggressive Ill get?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think shes playing games and that her interest level isnt really that high. I also think you've already put her on a pedestal..Wrong move dude. Stop over analyzing and back off a bit
 
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Ive thought about that. But SHE is the one blowing me up, setting up the dates, does NOT flake, asks me to sleep with her, and hangs on every word. How is she not high interest? Haha...
Shamefully, I have put her on a pedastall though...
 
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Girls will do this. She probably can be an attention wh0re looking for attention, I suggest you pick up those old plates or spin some new ones...What exactly are you trying to do? Just fvck her? or you want a relationship?
 
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You might be a great f... and a good way to pass time. Stay occupied w/ other interests, plates, and hobbies. Make her work for the d+++
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Man there is a lot of blind leading the blind on this board.... good lord!


1. She metioned that her male coworker keeps texting her and that her coworkers are trying to "hook them up". Is this a test? Do guys actually say, " hey, i thought you liked MEEEE?" ( i ignored this comment) and made sweet love to her a few hours later.
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Yes its a test, but women don't test you consciously; its a subconscious deal just like its almost automatic for us to stare at a chick who is wearing a tight dress. And yes, tons of chumps would get mad, jealous and project their feelings after hearing something like this.... Ignoring the comment is good, even better is to say in response:

"awww poor guy, you should give him a chance; you never know he might end up being the best thing that ever happened to you!" (while smiling)

2. After we have great sex on our second date, she casually mentions a couple times how her last bf, was clingy and she is glad that I dont seem to be. IS SHE PROJECTING HERE? Is she preparing me to have her cling?
(ignored this too.)
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Your over-analyzing on this one; she's simply stating a fact. That she likes that you have self control and have a life outside of her. This is a clear cut sign telling you how to keep her interested; don't be clingy, which is obvious.

3. She will go kind of hot and cold. What is this? In the kitchen or anywhere else for that matter if I try to kiss her or anything like that, she gets kind of wierded out. For example, if I try to french kiss her at 5 in the afternoon while drinking a margharita, she will not accept a full on kiss. Only little kisses. Or one kiss, and then turn away. But at night, I will press her and she enjoys the hell out of giving it up. Then the next day, same thing, shes all business.
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No not so much a power play as it is her not liking to kiss that much outside of the bedroom. The solution? Don't kiss her as much; taking away kisses will either make her miss them and she will start initiating them or will take you back to neutral ground on that issue.

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What you need to work on is developing true self confidence. Women will sub-conciously test you all the time to see if you are CONSISTENT with your behavior. Any chinks or cracks in your armor and they start to expose the real you. But if the real you is a self assured, confident male; she will be hooked on you for a long time. And all these little "tests" won't phase you.


Also one of the basics in learning game and understanding women is:


"NEVER LISTEN TO WHAT A GIRL SAYS, FOR THE TRUTH WATCH HER ACTIONS."





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