"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help Me Finally Finish What I Start

guayaballer

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This has to do with the other thread i made because i realise if i kiss her now it will cut through te bullshiet. ever since i can remember this has always happend and i want to break the damn curse. whenever in class they change seats and a cute or hot girl sits behind me i introduce myself and she does te same and then eventually it escalats to me always making her laugh i become ****y and funny witty and everyone around me likes me and im the center of attention. i can talk with the girl with no problems she kinos me and i kino her ( holding hands tickling, leaving my hand on her back). and i can tell she likes me because of the way she looks at me and initiates kino. but eventually she figures me out what im going to say and her interest level drops and drops till we just stop talking. im typing this now because i realized this is happening right now and its at the early stages where everything is great i NEED HELP TO FINALLY GET THE GIRL in my class. so all in all i can raise interest keep it there for a while and it will inevitably plumett so i need to know quickly what i have to do to finish what i start. to prevent her as seeing me as just a friend or a clown to a potential bf or something more than friends.

damn and i thought i was past my afc days :rolleyes:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WC2

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Sometimes too much talk can lead girls to thinking you have friendly ambitions. You have balls, but she doesn't know it until you communicate that to her. Make her laugh for a little while, tell her you and her should do something out of school, and leave it till then.
 

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Agreed with WC2, your doing everything right initially, but you fail to escalate past that point. You have to make a move otherwise the girl will eventually just think your a flirt and will give up on you.

There's an old saying that applies here, strike while the iron's hot.
 

guayaballer

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and if she says no she cant shes busy (usually the #1 response i fear she mite say but eh) i shud just next her and move on rite fellas? but how do i handle her if she say no
 

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You might be taking too long.

And make sure you are using Push and Pull.

You can't give her too much attention. You should make it start out great, then take a little away, and alternate.

Make your point once you know she is attracted to you. Never hit on a girl until she is attracted to you. Make sure you turn the C&F off as soon as you hit C1. Calibrate how you are moving through the comfort stage and as soon as you think your at C3, go for the kiss, without any second thoughts. Just do it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guayaballer said:
hmm how do you do push pull if she sits behind you?
Well that's pretty much a perfect situation for you. You talk/flirt with her, then you "push" her (neg) and turn around. Rinse and repeat.
 

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neg a lot and then when u guys chill somewhere outside of school do the kiss test and escalate. etc
 
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