"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help Me Finally Finish What I Start

guayaballer

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This has to do with the other thread i made because i realise if i kiss her now it will cut through te bullshiet. ever since i can remember this has always happend and i want to break the damn curse. whenever in class they change seats and a cute or hot girl sits behind me i introduce myself and she does te same and then eventually it escalats to me always making her laugh i become ****y and funny witty and everyone around me likes me and im the center of attention. i can talk with the girl with no problems she kinos me and i kino her ( holding hands tickling, leaving my hand on her back). and i can tell she likes me because of the way she looks at me and initiates kino. but eventually she figures me out what im going to say and her interest level drops and drops till we just stop talking. im typing this now because i realized this is happening right now and its at the early stages where everything is great i NEED HELP TO FINALLY GET THE GIRL in my class. so all in all i can raise interest keep it there for a while and it will inevitably plumett so i need to know quickly what i have to do to finish what i start. to prevent her as seeing me as just a friend or a clown to a potential bf or something more than friends.

damn and i thought i was past my afc days :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WC2

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Sometimes too much talk can lead girls to thinking you have friendly ambitions. You have balls, but she doesn't know it until you communicate that to her. Make her laugh for a little while, tell her you and her should do something out of school, and leave it till then.
 

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Agreed with WC2, your doing everything right initially, but you fail to escalate past that point. You have to make a move otherwise the girl will eventually just think your a flirt and will give up on you.

There's an old saying that applies here, strike while the iron's hot.
 

guayaballer

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and if she says no she cant shes busy (usually the #1 response i fear she mite say but eh) i shud just next her and move on rite fellas? but how do i handle her if she say no
 

Lust

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You might be taking too long.

And make sure you are using Push and Pull.

You can't give her too much attention. You should make it start out great, then take a little away, and alternate.

Make your point once you know she is attracted to you. Never hit on a girl until she is attracted to you. Make sure you turn the C&F off as soon as you hit C1. Calibrate how you are moving through the comfort stage and as soon as you think your at C3, go for the kiss, without any second thoughts. Just do it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rock_Solid

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guayaballer said:
hmm how do you do push pull if she sits behind you?
Well that's pretty much a perfect situation for you. You talk/flirt with her, then you "push" her (neg) and turn around. Rinse and repeat.
 

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neg a lot and then when u guys chill somewhere outside of school do the kiss test and escalate. etc
 
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