"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help me figure out this girl

Elijah

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So there is this girl that i've known for a while and im pretty confused about her, we've met through mutual friends, and we're studying together for college. so we see each other on daily basis. sometimes i think she is flirting with me, and sometimes im not sure if thats her way of behaving with guys in general or if she is trying to tell me something. so this is what she basically do when we're together:

Tries to get close to me as much as possible, (did that since day one) positions her legs right next to mine. (she's a pretty attractive girl so at times it got a little uncomfortable for me, but didnt wanna tell her anything that would upset her and i wasn't totally sure why she was doing that) always asking me what are my dreams, hopes, my life. which type of girls i hang out with, etc all that stuff. sometimes her questions felt unnecessary or forcible.

Plays with her jewelry and hair most of the time when im around her.
Caught her starring at me way too many times. when i try to look back at her, she quickly turns her head away, like she's embarrassed or upset or something.

Once we were watching something on her IPhone, and out of no where a scene came out where there was this lady that was flirting with a guy and touched his legs. as soon as that scene came, she quickly looked at me in a flirtatious pose or something and laughed/smiled.

Another thing found odd was that one time her leg touched mine by accident and so she kinda made a small sigh, like she was mad or something and blushed and quickly changed her legs to the other side. which also felt odd to me. there are plenty of other things but this is all that i can remember at the moment.

Oh and sometimes i enter my bedroom just to see her sitting on my bed dangling her shoes like she's waiting for me or something. i dont know if its all in my head, but something screams about this girl that she wanna f**k me. am i reading too much into it? i've been around girls and they never behave like that unless they want something more than your friendship.

I just wanna know why would she do that? like for example with the IPhone situation. does that mean anything?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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“She's a woman, you're a dude. You're not supposed to understand her. That's not what she's after.... She doesn't want you to understand her. She knows that's impossible. She just wants you to understand yourself. Everything else is negotiable.”
― Neal Stephenson, Snow Crash
 

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Oh and sometimes i enter my bedroom just to see her sitting on my bed dangling her shoes like she's waiting for me or something.

something screams about this girl that she wanna f**k me.


Sounds reasonable. I'd run with that.
 

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The only way to know 100% is to make a move on her. Period. Everything else will be eternal speculation. Go for it.
 
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