JohnnyBravo85
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Kind of stuck in this weird situation with this one girl… So please guys help me out to make sense of her behavior!
I know this girl from collage she always smiles at me, but to be fair she does that with everyone. However, what is different with me is that she regularly invades my “personal space” (she gets really close) and also often touches me…
And when I smile at her she often looks away to the side, starts facing the floor and smiling.
So one day I figured what the heck an asked her whether she wants to hang on the Saturday, She immediately started smiling and said sure, let’s hang.
On the Saturday I send her text asking when she wanted to hang… She send me a text back (15 minutes later) that she partied all night and was just planning to chill on her couch all day. I sent her a text back just saying: OK, see you on Monday in class.
About a week later we and some fellow students went partying, heavy drinking involved.
At the end of the evening I asked her whether she wanted to join me for some after party at my place to smoke some dope together, which she said yes to.
We ended up at my place smoked some weed and she basically told me everything about herself, like her rough childhood and trouble with her parents in her younger years…
That was probably the time and place my feelings went from I just want to **** her, too I’m in love with her…
Nothing happened, on my part this was due to the fact that I was too ****ed up on her part I dunno…
About a week later I again sent her a text whether she wanted to hang out that evening again and smoke some…
She didn’t answer this text for 24 hours than called me…
Asking me whether she could come over to my place, which I said yes too.
After 30 minutes she called me again telling me that she would be late due to her having to get back to her apartment again… I just told her that that’s alright, I didn’t ask for a reason… After two hours she still hadn’t arrived at my place so I tried to call her, but she didn’t answer the phone.
Since then she has been ditching class (only one day + the current weekend to be fair) and I haven’t seen her since then or tried to initiate contact…
Here are my issues with the situation:
1. I’m unsure whether she is attracted, just playing games or just being nice…
2. She essentially flaked twice on me. How should I handle the second flake when we see each other again? Should I confront her or just play it cool?
3. How should I proceed should I ask her out again or wait for her to do so?
General wisdom and advice is also appreciated!
I know this girl from collage she always smiles at me, but to be fair she does that with everyone. However, what is different with me is that she regularly invades my “personal space” (she gets really close) and also often touches me…
And when I smile at her she often looks away to the side, starts facing the floor and smiling.
So one day I figured what the heck an asked her whether she wants to hang on the Saturday, She immediately started smiling and said sure, let’s hang.
On the Saturday I send her text asking when she wanted to hang… She send me a text back (15 minutes later) that she partied all night and was just planning to chill on her couch all day. I sent her a text back just saying: OK, see you on Monday in class.
About a week later we and some fellow students went partying, heavy drinking involved.
At the end of the evening I asked her whether she wanted to join me for some after party at my place to smoke some dope together, which she said yes to.
We ended up at my place smoked some weed and she basically told me everything about herself, like her rough childhood and trouble with her parents in her younger years…
That was probably the time and place my feelings went from I just want to **** her, too I’m in love with her…
Nothing happened, on my part this was due to the fact that I was too ****ed up on her part I dunno…
About a week later I again sent her a text whether she wanted to hang out that evening again and smoke some…
She didn’t answer this text for 24 hours than called me…
Asking me whether she could come over to my place, which I said yes too.
After 30 minutes she called me again telling me that she would be late due to her having to get back to her apartment again… I just told her that that’s alright, I didn’t ask for a reason… After two hours she still hadn’t arrived at my place so I tried to call her, but she didn’t answer the phone.
Since then she has been ditching class (only one day + the current weekend to be fair) and I haven’t seen her since then or tried to initiate contact…
Here are my issues with the situation:
1. I’m unsure whether she is attracted, just playing games or just being nice…
2. She essentially flaked twice on me. How should I handle the second flake when we see each other again? Should I confront her or just play it cool?
3. How should I proceed should I ask her out again or wait for her to do so?
General wisdom and advice is also appreciated!
