"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Help me buy a notebook computer

Dapper Swindler

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This is the most expensive thing I've ever bought. Even more expensive than my car. I've been researching this for weeks and I've come to the conclusion that if a computer is cheap, it's cheap for a reason; if it is expensive, it is expensive for a reason. I originally planned to get the cheapest thing available but I'm gradually being suckered into spending more money. I'm very confused about CPUs. At first I was just looking at their GHz speed to compare them. But I was told that wasn't an accurate way to compare them because different processors use their speeds in different ways. Let me show you what I'm looking into.

$998
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.gsp?product_id=3595668
CPU: 1.4 GHz Intel Celeron
+ WXGA Brightview Widescreen


$899
http://www.circuitcity.com/ccd/productDetail.do?oid=108443&WT.mc_n=61&WT.mc_t=U
CPU: AMD Athlon XP-M 2200+
+ DVD buner
+ 80GB hard drive
- battery life

$659
http://www1.us.dell.com/content/products/features.aspx/inspn_1000?c=us&cs=19&l=en&s=dhs
CPU: Mobil Intel Celeron Processor 2.2GHz

$1199
CPU: Intel Centrino Processor 715 2MB
+ I found this one at circuit city today, so not having to order it is a plus
+ DVD burner
+ 80 GB
+ WXGA Brightview
+ Dedicated video memory
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Figure out what software you are going to run first. Compile their requirements and then buy a system that is about twice as powerful. A good rule is to get as much memory (RAM) as you can afford.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sfalexi

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First and foremost, tell us what you plan on using it for. Is it strictly a work computer? Internet and basic programs? Gonna be doing video editing and lots of downloading? Lots of games? What are you using it for?

You wouldn't buy a dodge caravan if you're planning to take it to the local tracks and break some speed records, nor would it make sense to buy a GTO if you're planning on being a soccor mom.

What are you gonna use it for?
 
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